Thursday, November 12, 2009
Discussion: Relationships (general)
I know I haven't been posting recently, mainly due to my 'A' levels... revision revision revision... hahas... well looks like i won't be posting a full discussion... haven't really been getting any comments... hahas...
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Relationships with other people will always happen, whether we like it or not. But in today's time and age, BGRs are something which we desire and often dive in without really considering the consequences and the commitment needed to make it work. More and more commonly I hear people telling me that it's just for fun or experience.
RUBBISH!
Going into a relationship for the sake of fun is one of the most childish and immature things I've ever heard(ooh... wait a minute... childish and immature mean the same thing...ahem moving on...). having a close relationship with another human is a precious occurrence, as people in today's world... filled with scepticism and distrust... being able to rely and trust someone without doubts is even more valuable don't you agree?
And so, having "fun" is akin to playing around with another person's heart and reliance on you. Which sounds downright childish and irresponsible doesn't it?
I mean the whole point of dating is to achieve that final goal, which is marriage. We date to see what would sharing our life with another person would be like, and if things work out, eventually get married.
By this definition, it is only appropriate if we get into a steady boy-girl relationship only and ONLY if we're prepared to be committed to marriage. Scary but true. Most people don't even have this in mind when they become a couple. I'm not saying that is wrong, but come on... don't go starting relationships when you don't even know what you want out of it.
Common excuses:
1) I want to be pampered and doted on
Your parents have pampered and doted on you all your life
2) Just for fun, why so serious?
One word: immature
3) I need my other half
Heck, you weren't born as a couple with someone else right? We all came into this world alone(with the exception of twins, triplets, quadruplets, etc.)
4) My friends are all attached and I feel lonely
It's not your responsibility to live everyone else's life for them, just your own.
5) I just want to have all the fun I can while I'm young. I mean what's wrong with playing with peoples' hearts? If I don't do it then someone else will.
There is a special place in hell for people like you
There's more I want to say but unfortunately... time doesn't allow it... study study study... maybe I'll post more next time.
Labels: Discussion, random stuff
Signing off at...
2:39 PM
